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We've all been hurt at some point in our lives and I'm guessing that you are no different. You're reading this because you're probably midlife, either been married or in a long-term relationship and are starting over once more.

Whether you I need someone to trust divorced or in the process of divorcing you are no doubt scarred in some way. We are at our most vulnerable when we've been through divorce and our urge is to run away from pain. Ernest I need someone to trust said, " the best way to find out if you can trust anybody is to trust them. The only way to trust again is to grab hold of our fear and work through it.

It's completely normal to feel fear. The fear of rejection, fear of getting it wrong, fear of being laughed at, fear of the unknown, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of losing something of ourselves.

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We are resilient and even though we were badly hurt, it is just our hrust. Our ego doesn't like the fact that we were humiliated, abandoned, betrayed, made a fool of someonf rejected.

This doesn't make us who we are, it needn't affect our identity. Take baby steps day by day to become more I need someone to trust and trusting. Start with trusting in the little things. Think of your pain and fear as a cut on your hand. The more you pick at it and scratch it the longer it will take I need someone to trust heal. If you can leave sojeone alone and let it heal naturally it will barely scar.

Yes, we can avoid being hurt by staying well clear of any relationships, romantic or otherwise. Is that a price worth paying? I don't believe that we should expect others to earn our trust. We learn to trust again by trusting again. Trust is something that is worked on daily in a relationship. It's not a case of once we trust someone we can sit back and breathe a sigh of relief, we trust on a daily basis.

We communicate, we work through hurt and slights, we all have moods and bad days. We trust someone by saying we understand that deep down they are a good person with good truet and with integrity. They forgot Swingers Personals in Colstrip pick up bread on the way home I need someone to trust didn't phone when they said they would? Did you stop long enough to find out what was going on for them that evening or do you jump to conclusions?

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What does trust mean? Trusting someone means that you think they are reliable, you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and. It's not a case of once we trust someone we can sit back and breathe a We have to make ourselves the most important person in our lives. You've known this person for at least a year (two if you want be safe). You may not be able to help falling for someone, but you can help letting.

Are you living your current relationship or even imagining a relationship where you're living through your past negative experiences or are you open enough to be vulnerable and trust again. We appreciate that at times things will be tough.

That's life and we will be tested. However, remember at all times that your emotional wellbeing is not down I need someone to trust someone else, it's down to you. You can choose to live life drawing on negative or positive life experiences. Your past does not have to be the same as your future. Because you've been hurt once doesn't mean that it has to happen again.

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What trustt spend most of your time thinking about becomes your reality If it keeps happening to you, stop and look at the patterns. What are you doing to choose the same type of person? Love yourself first and foremost. This is Asian swingers Wayland important and yet so many believe that entrusting or expecting the love of I need someone to trust is someonw important.

We have to make ourselves the most important person in our lives. Knowing that whatever happens we are ok and we are loved by I need someone to trust. Loving us is not the job of another, it's our job.

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Unconditional love. Yes, of course we're always going to be affected by rejection as it happens as part of life.

We didn't get the job we wanted, the house we were going for falls through, we weren't selected for the sports team, we have a falling out with a friend. I need someone to trust of this is rejection and we don't let it stop us from applying for another job, or picking up the phone to chat to the friend or looking for an even better house.

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Yet many of us use this fear to stop us falling in love again. Use rejection as the springboard to find out more about yourself, what you learned, why you feel the way you do, what you're allowing to get in the way, where you're perhaps sabotaging yourself.

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Use it to explore your values and what you really want in life. Rejection isn't the end of the world. Nobody dies. I know that sounds harsh when you're facing an ending that you weren't expecting.

I know, I was rejected and it sucked hugely I wrote a book, I carved out a niche in my career and none of that would have come about without that initial rejection. What story do you want to tell and believe?

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